Relaxed Comfort:: Boyfriend Jeans and Alexander Wang

Its Friday!

You know, there is nothing more soothing to me than a good cup of hot tea.  Whenever I’ve had a long day or just need a cup of liquid happiness, I get my favorite coffee mug out, decide which flavor of tea I want to use, and fill my cup with hot water.   That’s when I begin the process of steeping my cares away.  After adding a touch of honey and milk, I am lost in tea therapy until the last sip.  Ahhhhhhh, pure delight.  What do you enjoy most after a long day?

Today’s Topic:

You don’t have to prove anything to anyone

I don’t know why, but somewhere along the journey of life, we put the burden on ourselves to convince others how great we are.  We feel that we are not good enough unless someone else validates that within us.  Don’t try to prove anything about yourself to anyone.  Its unnecessary.  Learn to please yourself.  Learn to forgive yourself.  Continue to build your self confidence and self love by looking at how far you’ve come and what you’ve been able to overcome.

As long as you’re evolving and growing into the best person that you can be,  that’s all you can ask for in life.  No one else is, was ,or ever will be able to judge you fairly anyway.  Its not your job to convince others to agree with your opinions.  To agree with your beliefs.  You do not have to justify them to other people.

There is no way you can live authentically and simultaneously worry about what others think of the way you dress, the choices you make, and the way you value your time.  You are the only person you can truly please.  When you are honest with yourself, you have something wonderful to offer to others and always on your terms.

Now, on to the fashion……

These boyfriend jeans are the Yin to my Yang.  They are super comfy and whenever I put them on, I am slipping into more than just a pair of jeans.  I am slipping into a world of peace and tranquility.



I added this white ribbed cami and cropped red leather jacket because it jest felt right.  The yellow pumps were like “pick me, pick me” so I couldn’t resist.  I always like to try and add something to an outfit that makes you say one of two things: 1)WOW, I can’t believe those look great together, or 2)What the hell was she thinking?  If you say either of those, I’ve done my job.





How do you like my tag the rainbow eyeshadow? I love having fun with fashion and beauty. My kids are so embarrassed sometimes because they never know how I’m going to show up at their school.  But I dress the way I feel.  Today I created my own pot of gold and my own rainbow too for that matter


I hope you enjoy the fashion and inspirational messages that I post here.  My goal is to make this a place where you can step out of your life for a brief moment and become inspired in some way.   If you do, please leave a comment below.  Also, if you have any questions for me, let me know.

Big hugs and thank you for reading!


Rock my look:

  • Jeans – True Religion
  • Cami and jacket – Bebe
  • Shoes – Alexander Wang
  • Tea – Constant Comment by Bigelow (its my favorite)



This Post Has 4 Comments

  1. Hi Diamond. I end my day with a cup of Earl Grey…. It’s just the most relaxing treat.. The only diff is I sip and knit 🙂
    Love the eyeshadow! Love the outfit… Only thing is can you send me the jeans and I will fix the tears in the knees for you ok ? ( just kidding, wink, wink)
    I wish I could show you what I’m wearing right now. A pair of lululemon leggings with a floral print, a pink lulu lemon hoodie and the best part… My Levian hot pink sapphire chandelier earrings. My daughter would beg me to change the earrings but no can do! If I don’t wear them on a “regular” day they will sit in my safe crying due to never being worn lol 🙂

    Thanks for the Inspiration!!

    1. I absolutely adore you! I bet you look so cute in your Lululemon legging and floral top!

  2. Love the red jacket and yellow wangs! Wore a lilly dress to the gun range yesterday where most were probably wondering wth is she thinking- lol btw your shoes match your porch pillow – miss you, girl!

    1. Hey Girlie! Thanks for reading my blog! Miss you too

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